November is Family Violence Prevention Month, a time for us to raise awareness and recognize what we can do to help those experiencing it.
Family violence is devastating and happens every day, and in many different ways. It is an abuse of power in a family or other trusting relationship where someone’s well-being, security and survival are threatened. It can be experienced by anyone, young or old, regardless of gender, orientation or ethnic background.
Family violence is always an important issue to highlight, as abuse and violence happens behind doors in every community.
But this year, family violence has been escalated by the pandemic.
“Episodes of abuse increase in frequency and severity as families experience the stress of job loss and/or isolation,” said Rajan Sawhney, Minister of Community and Social Services in a statement this week. “People may be caught between their abuser and the effects of COVID-19, such as fewer interactions with friends, colleagues and other family members.”
Watch for warning signs in your friends and coworkers. People affected by family violence may cope differently but some of the common warning signs include becoming withdrawn from family and friends, a change in personality, signs of depression or anxiety, hints about abuse, or not wanting to make even simple decisions without their partner.
If you are experiencing abuse, it may feel difficult or impossible to leave an abuser, particularly without financial security or support networks, but reaching out to a local shelter by phone or text can help. Many shelters offer services and outreach programs, including help with planning to leave safely.
This month, we are publishing an article each week from Yellowhead Emergency Shelter, a domestic violence service near Hinton that provides help for people dealing with domestic abuse. Their first piece is on Page 10.
If you have questions or need help, staff at Yellowhead Emergency Shelter are available 24 hours a day, seven days a week, and all calls are confidential. You can reach the shelter by calling 780-865-5311 or 1-800-661-0937.
Alberta also has a FamilyViolence Info Line at 310-1818, which is available in more than 170 languages at any time of the day.
Now, more than ever, let’s help put an end to family violence and show those in need that help is there for them.
Fuchsia Dragon
[email protected]
